I believe that some people like to look at the mirror ---just to check out their appearances. Well, I admit I'm one of them, but there is also something which differs us.
People normally utilise mirror when brushing their teeth, changing clothes, combing their hairs, looking at their gorgeous faces, practise speeches or whatever.
I check out my reflection at the end of the day. I flashback what I have constributed that day. By looking at the mirror, I see the unseen. And from the unseen, i learn, and hence improve myself.
Perhaps, I am an introspective man. Hence, mirror has become a vital item in my life.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Opportunity
Everyone is given opportunities in his or her life. These opportunities can be classified into simple and precious opportunities.
Precious opportunity, it is something special which not everybody deserves it. It is something serious which will definitely affect the rest of your life.
Opportunity is just like a gamble. If you are able to understand, cherish and handle the opportunity well, you will be honored and rewarded. Otherwise, you will be humiliated and gibed by society. Well, as such, the greater the opportunity, the greater the impact towards your life.
For example, in a manager is given an opportunity to promote and increase the income of his company. First, he accepts the opportunity and start working on it. If he does help the company to increase its profit, he might be promoted and become the CEO! However, if he failed, the company will have less confidence to this person, meanwhile, his colleagues might look down to him.
Of course, there is another group of people, who will never accept any opportunities. “Do less, wrong less.” This is their common thought. Well, what can I say is, this kind of people will never improve themselves. They don’t even have the courage to attempt the opportunities. How will they succeed?
As I said, some opportunities are very precious. If you do not cherish them, they might be taken by the others. When you notice it, it is all already too late. As an advice, never let go any precious opportunities.
Everyone is gifted opportunities by God, so do you. Accept it, or not, it depends on you, but before you decide, please think. Opportunities will change your fate.
Precious opportunity, it is something special which not everybody deserves it. It is something serious which will definitely affect the rest of your life.
Opportunity is just like a gamble. If you are able to understand, cherish and handle the opportunity well, you will be honored and rewarded. Otherwise, you will be humiliated and gibed by society. Well, as such, the greater the opportunity, the greater the impact towards your life.
For example, in a manager is given an opportunity to promote and increase the income of his company. First, he accepts the opportunity and start working on it. If he does help the company to increase its profit, he might be promoted and become the CEO! However, if he failed, the company will have less confidence to this person, meanwhile, his colleagues might look down to him.
Of course, there is another group of people, who will never accept any opportunities. “Do less, wrong less.” This is their common thought. Well, what can I say is, this kind of people will never improve themselves. They don’t even have the courage to attempt the opportunities. How will they succeed?
As I said, some opportunities are very precious. If you do not cherish them, they might be taken by the others. When you notice it, it is all already too late. As an advice, never let go any precious opportunities.
Everyone is gifted opportunities by God, so do you. Accept it, or not, it depends on you, but before you decide, please think. Opportunities will change your fate.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Leader & Members
I had a monolog one day:
“I am the leader. I lead you, dispense the tasks, and make vital decisions. You just have to do what I said.”
“Yes, you are our leader, but you are nothing without us!”
It is true that followers need to depend on the leader to lead them. Similarly, the leader needs the members' supports!
An organization will never carry out its functions without the cooperation of leader and the members. As a conclusion, both leader and members are vital in an organization.
“I am the leader. I lead you, dispense the tasks, and make vital decisions. You just have to do what I said.”
“Yes, you are our leader, but you are nothing without us!”
It is true that followers need to depend on the leader to lead them. Similarly, the leader needs the members' supports!
An organization will never carry out its functions without the cooperation of leader and the members. As a conclusion, both leader and members are vital in an organization.
A leader's thought
“Why must I listen to you?” This is the common thought which appears when a member dissatisfies with the leader.
“Can you understand my feeling?” This is another thought which shows up in a leader’s mind.
Let’s talk about the leader’s paradox situation first:
Some leaders are serious when leading their teams. In actual fact, they are stern so that the members will listen to their instructions.
Sadly, some people misunderstand them and then assume that all leaders are arrogant.
However, please think deeper, if the leader behaves too soft, will people listen to his instruction?
I guess no one will listen to him.
Well, what the members cannot see is, leaders are always loaded with tons of responsibilities.
Almost three times the stress in the members. Leaders have to carry extra responsibilities such as motivate the team, make vital decisions, making sure the followers are doing their jobs and then gather and refine their works !
Well, being a leader might be an honor, but a leader’s exhaustion is hardly appreciated.
“Can you understand my feeling?” This is another thought which shows up in a leader’s mind.
Let’s talk about the leader’s paradox situation first:
Some leaders are serious when leading their teams. In actual fact, they are stern so that the members will listen to their instructions.
Sadly, some people misunderstand them and then assume that all leaders are arrogant.
However, please think deeper, if the leader behaves too soft, will people listen to his instruction?
I guess no one will listen to him.
Well, what the members cannot see is, leaders are always loaded with tons of responsibilities.
Almost three times the stress in the members. Leaders have to carry extra responsibilities such as motivate the team, make vital decisions, making sure the followers are doing their jobs and then gather and refine their works !
Well, being a leader might be an honor, but a leader’s exhaustion is hardly appreciated.
Monday, September 7, 2009
BLOGing
Blog is so reputed nowadays. Generally students, young adults and adults are the authers of blogs. if you do not have one account, you might be considered as outdated. Well, of course, in this modern era, please do not expect people to flip a diary page every night. In the other words, blogs have become a media which take over the role of diaries.
Writing a blog requires consistency. Just like writing a diary. Lazyness is the greatest resistance. Or soon, you will find out your diary is covered by a thick layer of dust, left at the lonely corner of your bedroom.
Okay, back to our discussion. What is a BLOG anyway? I searched my Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary 6th Edition. The result is, nothing. No such word in my favourite dictionary. Too bad. Perhaps, it might be a new word - a networking-based vocaburary. Then, I key it into the Google search. A blog, a type of website, maintained by an individual with regular entries of commentary, descriptions of events, or other material such as graphics or video. (Source:Wikipedia)
However, for what I know so far, people more likely to treat them as the online diaries. People can write whatever they like in their blogs, but of course, races and political issues are always forbiddened. Anyway, people can seek for freedom in blog, at least not in a ridiculous way. Besides, I am wondering if writing a blog can refine my writing skills or not. It sounds something new to me. Perhaps, these are the inspirations to me to start BLOGing
Writing a blog requires consistency. Just like writing a diary. Lazyness is the greatest resistance. Or soon, you will find out your diary is covered by a thick layer of dust, left at the lonely corner of your bedroom.
Okay, back to our discussion. What is a BLOG anyway? I searched my Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary 6th Edition. The result is, nothing. No such word in my favourite dictionary. Too bad. Perhaps, it might be a new word - a networking-based vocaburary. Then, I key it into the Google search. A blog, a type of website, maintained by an individual with regular entries of commentary, descriptions of events, or other material such as graphics or video. (Source:Wikipedia)
However, for what I know so far, people more likely to treat them as the online diaries. People can write whatever they like in their blogs, but of course, races and political issues are always forbiddened. Anyway, people can seek for freedom in blog, at least not in a ridiculous way. Besides, I am wondering if writing a blog can refine my writing skills or not. It sounds something new to me. Perhaps, these are the inspirations to me to start BLOGing
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